• Review: Sulwhasoo Timetreasure Invigorating Sleeping Mask

    I’m upset.

    I’m upset to have fallen in love with a product.

    I haven’t been this upset since the last time I fell in love with a lavishly priced Sulwhasoo mask, the Sulwhasoo Concentrated Ginseng Renewing Creamy Mask, and that was back in 2017. The only reason I’m not more upset right now is that while the Sulwhasoo Timetreasure Invigorating Sleeping Mask is a solid $80 more than the ginseng sheet masks, at least the $200 Timetreasure sleeping mask is a nice big 80mL jar, which lasts me a lot longer than a $120 box of five sheet masks. So that’s something. (more…)

  • How Bujo and a Hobonichi Planner Help Me Keep My Shit Together

    Having trouble getting your shit together? Yeah, me too. And so does just about everyone else, no matter how effortless their lives look from the outside. For most of us, the ability to get (and keep) our shit together is a hard-earned skill, not an innate talent.

    I’ve obsessed over productivity systems for years, looking for a way to keep my depression, anxiety, and crippling perfectionism from cockblocking my ambitions. Then, sometime in late 2016, my good friend and highly accomplished professional badass Tracy (of Fanserviced-B and Snailcast fame) introduced me to bullet journaling and Hobonichi planners. The combination has gotten my disorganized mind under control, allowing me to better juggle daily obligations while working towards larger goals. A lot of you asked me about my bujo practices when I showed a few pages of my planner on my Instagram story recently, so let’s do this!

    And let’s do it with fun colors (if we want to)!

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  • Off-Blog: Book Update and New COSRX Reviews

    Lately it feels as if all of my writing is for outlets other than this blog, whether it’s for my Instagram (home for reviews and rants that can fit into a single caption and usually only require one picture) or for other sites (which I do have to do, because bills). But I am writing, and I’m trying to make sure those of you who visit the blog first don’t miss anything you might want to read!

    Speaking of writing, the edit of my book is taking much longer than expected. I should have known better than to think that finishing the original draft was the bulk of the work–I’ve been around this block before! Between editing, rearranging, trying not to chew my nails down to stubs in fits of anxiety and self-doubt, and going through some personal things which have taught me lessons that I’d also like to add to the book in the form of at least one more chapter, things are going slowly.

    I so appreciate the patience you guys are showing. I’ve got the pre-order records and will think of something extra for those of you who jumped in early and are waiting for your copies!

    In the meantime, I’ve written up some new COSRX releases that I think some of you may be interested in.

    First up is the new COSRX Full Fit propolis line. I’ve tried the ampoule before, but the toner and cream are new to both me and our market here in the US, and I was really excited about them!

    COSRX discloses the concentrations of their bee ingredients a little differently for the cream. The box states that the product contains 65.69% “Full Fit Pro-Barrier Complex,” which combines propolis, honey, and royal jelly extracts. I’m guessing here that the propolis makes up the vast majority of the complex, with the honey and royal jelly extracts present in far smaller amounts that might look silly listed out on the label. In any case, as long as the product performs well, that’s fine.

    Read it here.

    And second up is the new COSRX Advanced Snail Peptide Eye Cream. We all know I’m no stranger to using snail cream around my eyes, but now there’s a dedicated product for that.

    I’ve been using the COSRX Advanced Snail Peptide Eye Cream on my left eye and the original COSRX Advanced Snail 92 All In One Cream on my right eye for two weeks now, and I have some thoughts. So let’s dig in.

    Read it here. (By the way, I’m still using the new cream on my left eye and the original snail cream on my right, and my feelings remain the same.)

    Thank you all for bearing with me through quiet periods and outside projects and book editing delays. I appreciate all of you! And I can promise very exciting developments in 2020…more on that to come when the time is right!

  • Off-Blog: Sheet Mask Ingredients, Anti-Aging Lessons, Acids Prep

    I don’t post nearly as much here as I do on Instagram, but I am always writing something! Here are my latest articles on other sites.

    GlowieCo and I have developed a good relationship primarily based on our shared love of Taiwanese sheet masks. I’ve wanted to write a big sheet mask ingredient guide for a long time, so I wrote one for them.

    As with skincare in general, the best starting point for choosing your masks is the ingredients. Ingredient awareness will enable you to quickly narrow down your choices to the options most likely to help you achieve your skin goals. Ingredient awareness can also help you avoid ingredients that are incompatible with your skin or your skin goals.

    It’s got a nice hyperlinked list of ingredients right near the top, so if you’re just curious about one particular ingredient, you can skip right to it. Or read the whole thing for an overview! Read it here. And if you want to shop them afterwards, don’t forget to use my affiliate code FIDDYSNAILS for 10% off your order.

    Over on Beautytap editorial, I contributed a couple of articles, too. First up are the anti-aging lessons I’ve learned on the way to forty (which is coming up soon for me).

    We can get into a whole other discussion on society’s beauty standards and the self-reflection it takes to meaningfully challenge those ingrained expectations, but this isn’t the article for that. For now, let’s just say that the appearance of my skin did impact my confidence and self-image. I am a big believer in doing something about the things that make us feel less than great in our own skin, so I did.

    Read it here.

    And second is the first in a two-part series of things to know before you begin using acids.

    For many people, chemical exfoliation is a holy grail part of their skincare routine, the secret weapon to keeping skin smooth, clear, and fresh. For others, acids can be a nightmare. Which one will it be for you? These nine things will help you make acids work for you, instead of working against every goal you have for your face.

    Read it here.

    Thanks for reading! I’ll be back with some actual blog posts on this actual blog soon!

  • Introducing the Reflect Beauty Awards: A Celebration of Diverse Beauty

    A note from Fiddy: I’m happy to be joining the team at Reflect Beauty, a new media collective that promotes true diversity in today’s beauty and wellness spaces. Here’s an intro from my colleagues at the site!

    By Sheila Marmon and Nikki Walton of ReflectBeauty.com

    #RepresentationInBeautyMatters and we all deserve an equal opportunity to not only embrace and find confidence in the hair and skin we’re in, but to see ourselves reflected in popular media. And while we’ve witnessed an explosion in available makeup shades, and products for a variety of hair textures and skin needs, there’s still work to be done, progress to be made, and real, lasting beauty inclusivity to be achieved.  Change is not an option here, it’s a necessity– for our quality of life, and for the benefit of the world.

    A Seat at the Table
    They say the most effective way for a woman of color to effect change, is to not just secure a seat at the table, but to build her own table! And the inaugural Reflect Beauty Awards is such a table– built for us, by us, to achieve real, lasting beauty equity worldwide. We are a force: unapologetically showing up as our authentic selves, drinking our water, eating healthy, not skipping leg day, reading our books, and loving ourselves. We are making the shift from being part of a collective beauty standard to realizing that we are our own beauty standard. We are YOU. And the Reflect Beauty Awards is our table, so pull up a chair!

    The Reflect Beauty Awards
    During the next 4 weeks, we’ll be honoring the very best in makeup, hair, and skin products catering to the diversity of pigments, textures, and tones that accurately reflect our inner & outer beauty.  We’re celebrating the brands that celebrate us!

    Our Reflect Beauty influencers and editors will be tackling our biggest beauty-related issues and discussing the most effective solutions and winning products to get the job done.  The best part—our influencers are choosing and sharing only the products THEY love! This is not a drill! This is not a pay-to-play situation. This is an educational tool, a platform for each of us to learn, and share our experiences, frustrations, and triumphs of being our naturally gorgeous selves!

    In addition to having some of the biggest voices in beauty joining the conversation, like Jessica Pettway, Leslie Alvarado, and Sandy Lin, and top publishers on board like us, HypeHair, and Vida Latina driving the message, partner brands like Clinique and UOMA are collectively helping to pave the road to inclusive beauty for all!

    Stay Tuned!
    We’ve planned a fun, fabulous and educational month for you, and we truly hope you’ll join us.  Please stay tuned for plenty of amazing tutorials, wholly relevant articles, weekly beauty box giveaways, and even a few special guests! First up, Makeup Week!  #RepresentationInBeautyMatters #PullUpAChair #ReflectBeautyAwards

  • Off-Blog: Sheet Mask Hacks, Beauty Vitamins, and COSRX Balancium Comfort Ceramide Cream

    Time rushes on, summer turns into even hotter Second Summer, and I’ve got a fresh batch of off-blog articles for you!

    First up, over on new AB shop GlowieCo‘s blog, I’ve gathered five of my favorite sheet mask tips and tricks to get the most out of your masking sessions.

    I’m a very frequent and consistent sheet masker. I use sheet masks 4-5 nights a week and have for a long time. I recognize, however, that many people either don’t want to use sheet masks that often, or simply can’t. In those cases, you can get the most out of your masks by using them when your skin will most benefit from them.

    Read it here. And if you decide to shop GlowieCo after reading, you can use my affiliate code FIDDYSNAILS to get 10% off your order!

    Next up, a reluctant review of COSRX Balancium Comfort Ceramide Cream over on Beautytap editorial. Contains an impromptu semi-rant about the direction COSRX has been going in lately as well as explanation of how I can finish an entire tube of a product and not feel like I really like it that much.

    I find that when my skin is in a normal and healthy state, the Balancium Comfort Ceramide Cream doesn’t do much for me. I’m picky about moisturizers in general, which is why it takes me so long to finish most of them.

    Read it here.

    Finally, I looked into the world of beauty vitamins for Beautytap editorial. There are a lot of beauty supplements out there these days, and while they can be promising theoretically, the execution still strikes me as exceptionally sketchy.

    With some rare exceptions, the beauty supplement concept never appealed to me. When you ingest something, it has to be broken down in your digestive system and nutrients then distributed to the rest of your body. Conventional wisdom and personal experience both suggest that skin gets the short end of the stick.

    Read it here.

    There’s always more to come. I’ll be back, though next time it will be with a product review on this blog!

  • Fiddy Wrote a Book

    That’s right. I freaking did.

    I’ve wanted to write a book for a couple of years now. A blog is a great thing to have, but the bigger it grows, the less accessible it sometimes becomes: posts are uploaded in no particular order or arrangement, and older content can get lost in the shuffle even if the information in it remains relevant and useful.

    My goal was to combine what I’ve learned about skincare with what I’ve learned about how skincare can improve our mental health, creating an ungodly chimera of skincare, self-help, and possibly some off-color and juvenile humor. Me, but in book form, with clear organization and a table of contents and everything. And lots of stuff that isn’t on my blog or in my social media.

    As my original proposal says:

    They say true beauty comes from within—that inner peace creates an outer glow. What they don’t say (at least not as often) is that the rituals we use to enhance our physical beauty can improve our mental health, too. My book links skincare to self-care culture, giving readers a practical guide to developing their ideal skincare routines and using those routines as a tool to better manage stress, anxiety, and depression.

    Late last year, I started talking with a wonderful and amazing literary agent about the idea. What I learned from then until now was that aiming for traditional publication might not be the best route. We had a promising exchange with a major publisher that fell through–beauty books don’t sell well consistently enough to be a safe bet for the kind of publishers that would be able to pay the kind of advances that would make it worth both my time and hers. K-beauty is even more niche.

    I went ahead and wrote it anyway, because I do what I want. And then I had a choice.

    It wouldn’t be impossible to sell it to a traditional publisher. I could work on my proposal, start making the rounds, and spend months or possibly even longer fighting for it, then, if a publisher picked it up, wait even longer for the manuscript to make its way through the corporate machine before publication.

    Or I could publish it myself. It would be more difficult in its own way and still risky. I might not make as much as if I had the patience to go the traditional route, but the book would be out there, and soon. I don’t have the marketing and PR resources of a publishing house, but I can make sure the people who I want to read the book will be aware of it. It’ll be entirely in my control.

    Guess which path I chose.

    The first draft is done. I’ve taken some time away from it to gain distance and perspective. Now it’s time to edit and design and put it together into the book I’ll be sending out into the world. I’m planning to release it for $9.99 as an Amazon ebook in October of this year, but before then, I’m offering it at a $5 pre-sale price for those of you who already read my blog and/or follow me on social media.

    But wait! There’s more!

    I couldn’t have written this without the community I’ve found through skincare and AB. I wouldn’t have anything to say, and I wouldn’t have anyone to say it to. So many of you guys have given me your support and told me your stories and become my friends. I would absolutely love to include you in the final phases of this book’s development. I may ask for your personal stories around skincare and mental health and for feedback on design or specific pieces of text. I’d love to make this not just my book, but our book.

    You can pre-order by sending $5 to my PayPal.me page and entering your email address in the notes field. I’ll know what it’s for, because no one randomly sends me $5. I need your email address to send you your code to receive your book upon release. I’ll also use that email address to contact you when opportunities to provide feedback come up. If you don’t want to hear from me except with the book code, add “book only” after your email address, and I’ll leave you alone until the book is out!

    Pre-orders will be open through the month of September via PayPal are closed. Please see my latest book update here for up-to-date information on the book project!

    I’m so excited to share my book with you guys and I’m so happy that I can. Thank you so much for reading my blog posts, following my Instagram, DMing me, and letting me into your lives. Your support over the last few years has completely changed my life, and I’ll always be grateful for every single one of you.

    This is happening. Let’s do this together!

  • Off-Blog: Lip and Eye Patch Masking Tips

    I promised I’d be better at linking my off-blog articles! Today’s is in the Beautytap editorial section and features tips for maximizing the effects of lip and eye masks.

    I don’t use lip patches nearly as often as eye patches. In the first place, I’m not that preoccupied with my lips. As long as they’re not flaky or dry and cracking, they’re fine. I don’t even wear lip color usually. And in the second place, I feel the need to sip from a beverage every 5 minutes or so all day long. No, not always an alcoholic beverage. Sometimes just soda or water. Yes, really. Anyway, lip patches get in the way of that.

    Read it here.

  • Off-Blog: 10-Minute Skincare Routines and BTS x Mediheal Mask Review
  • Off-Blog: My Dewy Skin Tips at GlowieCo

    As many of you may know, I do some freelance writing, both because I like money and because I like having additional platforms from which to spew my never-ending thoughts about skincare. I’ve recently taken on the new AB e-tailer GlowieCo, which launched with a selection of awesome Taiwanese and Japanese skincare products. I really like the GlowieCo leadership team’s attitude towards AB and I love their focus on T-beauty, so writing for them is a natural fit! My first post there is a primer on getting that famous dewy glow with skincare rather than makeup.

    There may always be room for a matte look, but fresh, glowing, bare (or bare-looking) skin is everywhere these days—it’s a look that’s both aspirational and down-to-earth. And though that dewy glow can be approximated with makeup, it’s best achieved through skincare. Instead of seeing our complexions as canvases to be painted over, we’re finding ways to make our skin a feature to be celebrated all on its own. But though it appears effortless, bare(ish) skin with that coveted dewy finish does take work.

    Please hop over and have a read here! And if you shop their site afterwards, you can use my affiliate code FIDDYSNAILS for 10% off.

    No base makeup here. Only skincare.

    And if you weren’t aware that I write for other sites, you can see my work occasionally on Beautytap’s editorial side and the Holy Snails blog.

    Thanks for reading and thanks for being awesome!